But the communication thing has really slowed down. Ive been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, i love him and I know he loves me back but, my biggest insecurity is him changing and being lazy in the relationship, which I have noticed he has been doing lately. Did his feelings change? But nope as well. Thats sad. Now that we have a son and Im not as fit as I used to be what does he think of me now? I cut out all those smiley-faced emoticons he avoided and texted one-word answers sometimes, just like he would. We do have a son together and me and him both work and I get home cook and clean and take care of our son while he just gets home everyday and relaxes he has embarrassed me many times in front of his family and friends When we barely got together I asked him what he would rate me 1-10 and he said a 6 and that really broke me. He confess to me that he started to love in our 1 month relationship. Id rather focus my energy on someone who can! but he never ever ever takes any pictures of me to show me off. I asked him a couple of times why he doesnt put any effort and he just told me since we live together I shouldnt have to and I get that point but it doesnt mean just completely give up on putting a effort into the relationship. Try not to get upset, irritated, or emotional. I think that might make him feel better. I know this is an old post, but I want to acknowledge your feelings. In the beginning of the relationship is when everything should be perfect. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. Then nothing. He betrayed his best friend, he betrayed the woman that has been loving him. Writing can help you discover if youre expecting too much, or if your boyfriend stopped making an effort because your relationship doesnt mean much to him. We all deserve to be happy. I hope this helps! It's easy for people to say, "It's We lived together in my apartment for about a year & a half. And i blamed him roudly.. And he promised me that his intention was nit to cheat me and said sorry. You cant change your boyfriend. Me and my boyfriend have been together for more than a year now and I feel like lately he doesnt make any effort to spend time with me. Heres what to do: write down the three strongest emotions you feel about your boyfriends lack of effort in your relationship. Should I leave? Not only that sexual favors have been one sided for a long time now. Can anyone help me and give me some advice? Im 53, he is 51. He wanted to hang out everyday which at first I though was strange but I started to so after while it was weird for both of us to not be around each other every day. We had romantic dates and fell in love at first sight. I was 15 when we got together and he is like my best friend I love him very much the problem is, I just feel like I do everything I can to make him feel comfortable and cared for and he does very little at all. I am really sad about it, because I know we love each other, but this relationship as it is doesnt satisfy me. SO , I DONT KNOW BUT IM FEELING AT THE END OF MY ROPE. Youre still young and should take that same advice youd give your daughter. He says he loves me but I dont see him actively showing his love. Living togeter or having sex before marriage is not accepted in my family and i also iddnt want to do that. He used o do his laundry, make his bed, clean the kitchen, cook himself and I dinner when I was at HIS place a lot or even when i moved in with him! If I try to tell him how much I care he insists I dont. Before that weve only met to chat, watch a movie or take a walk. And he certainly isnt going to change without a real reason, e.g., losing someone he cares about. Oh, also he keeps poking my stomach and at first it was funny and cute but now its genuinely annoying and Im trying to tell him to stop but he doesnt take me seriously and just kind of turns it into a joke. When we first started dating I personally felt like he put so much effort into me and the relationship. I do still love him, and have a lot of nice moments with him, and great memories. I love him a lot- weve been together for 2.5 years- but Im starting to realize that despite my feelings for him, I cant continue on in the relationship if he isnt willing to understand my feelings and desires. Please advice me on this. He sounds willing to work on your relationship, be thankful for that. He also said he wouldnt be going into the shop that sold the tea I needed. This isnt a man. Maybe he was tired or stressed out, maybe the honeymoon stage was simply over. Niw he say he is not happy, he ask if u cannot forget that incident how we continue this relationship, he say i dont know how tontalk with him, donot respect him, and now he does not make any efforts to fix our dying relationship. Im slowly giving up but everytime i try to let go he acts like he rlly loves me and he wants me back. My BF is of course devastated and angry. He has made me grow in ways Ive never imagined. If your boyfriend never made an effort to begin with, then he may simply be lazy or indifferent to building and maintaining a relationship with you. Im starting to think he doesnt want to marry me. You deserve to be told that you are beautiful, you deserve to be shown concern, you deserve respect. You wouldnt be HERE if you thought your gut was wrong. I do far too many things for him. Honestly, I cant feel good about myself because I gave an attention hungry narcissist permission to treat me like crap for 7 years. Don't assume he's pulling away because of something you did. I get so exhausted and mad that I says things hurtful accidentally such as you do nothing around here! YESTERDAY I TEXTED HIM AN TOLD HIM THE TRASH SMELT BAD AND HE SAID OKAY ILL TAKE IT OUT WHENI GET HOME. I got upset and she said she was done being friends with me so yeah that happened. I dont know if Im being dramatic but its just hard sometimes when you feel like you love someone more than they love you. Its sad when other give you the compliments that you are looking from in one person. He has always been lazy and wants to spend his day relaxing on his days off. He never brought it up again so I decided time to move on, clearly he is not interested. Like, if they arent happy anymore, why not tell us so we can move on? Dont turn a blind eye on things that are sign showing and you are not happy for them. We no longer sleep in the same bed, he has chosen to sleep on the couch. SHE STILL HAD HER HARNOUS ON HER. Hi I have been in relation with my boyfriend for 3 months now. He used to be affectionate and communicates a lot. I was in so much pain and he couldnt even come to check on me. Everything has started crumbling over the last few months. I want to tell him that having me over for take out and to spend the night is not enough. Even if I am not complaining he immediately jumps down my throat that something I am pointing out is a complaint. Also dont listen to a guys words only watch their actions. Because you are a happy individual yourself, he would feel lucky to share his life with you. Do I let this person disrespect my boundary? Hes now begging for me back , saying hes going to change. I asked him to spend Memorial Day with me shocker he forgot and made other plans. I feel like i am constantly having to fight for us to have a better relationship. I dont know what to do. There are sometimes I try to talk to him about my day, and he is listening but he doesnt engage or seem interested. Ive tried to talk to him and I ask him if Im still his priority and he does say that Im his priority but he never acts like it. i dont know what i should do since i know that he has feelings for me but i feel like he treats me like a friend a lot of the time. I feel you. ANGRY ALL THE TIME. I cant meet anyone else because everyone else doesnt want to be in relationships just sex or they are talking to other girls. In the second year of the relationship we were going out a lot to bars and clubs, and he began to drink a lot, and would become very aggressive with me, and started to treat me bad. But If they are not- I think you have to consider moving on. Be like, Hey, Im going to the beach or the zoo tomorrow and I was also gonna do this other thing. Tinder is amazing, by the way. I have tried so many times to let the relationship go and have broken up with him, but he does not want to let me go. My friend found someone perfect really quickly on Tinder 3 years ago, and they just got married in November. For example, do you expect your boyfriend to text you five times a day or call you first thing in the morning and last thing before you fall asleep? The key is to not give them the key to our happiness. i yearn for good morning texts or check ins throughout the day. If, however, your boyfriend really has lost interest in you, then you may have to be painfully honest with yourself. Help me please I have no idea what to do. After a few nights of him treating me bad, he noticed that I was about to leave him so stopped drinking when we would go out because he didnt want to be aggressive with me anymore. I was so upset and sad to know he did that, specially after just having a baby. if he told you he does not see a future with you, as hard as it is, you need to walk away now. I felt like I would never find anyone else who would want me, this douche bag was as good as I was ever going to get. I met other guys got into relationships but didnt work. He works constantly and Im a stay at home dog mom (Recently weve been wanting kids). Ask yourself what could be causing your boyfriend to pull away from you. That is an abusive, toxic relationship and you deserve so much better! I accepted bread crumbs, while continuing to give and give and give. So, whether you've only just noticed your partner giving you the proverbial cold shoulder or have undergone the iciness for weeks/months/years, now is the time to take a closer look at your relationship to establish the reason for the discontent and determine if the partnership is worth mending. That gives a clear instruction on how they can help meet your needs. The same month, I started my PhD program but I still made the time to see him. And so its for the most part become an issue I think between us. First off I pulled back without warning. But in the last month, I have noticed that I am always initiating meeting with him, and he would suggest in the very same day or at the spare of the moment for me to pass by his place and we end up spending 2 hours or so with each other having sex and then I leave because one of us has a commitment. He does have some medical issues, but seems to be taking care of most of them, he also says he does suffer from depression and I am wondering if this is what is happening. I am not allowed upstairs in their house either, it just makes me feel uncomfortable if I go to his. When I do, its the absolute bare minimum or just a bunch of excuses. It's also could be a sign your partner is unwilling to prioritize your relationship, communication has eroded, or you're no longer top-of-mind. This all happended 1 1/2yrs back.. From that day on, several times we discussed this. Then we signed our new real lease together and I dont know how we got where we got but he started getting lazy. I stay with him but he doesnt make any effort in helping in the house financially and his not willing to look for a job. with me very quickly after meeting me. The three emotions you suggested we wrote down mine were: Last on the priorities, unloved, lonely/lost. We did this at least once a week. WebiStock. He tried and invited me to a restaurant 2 times but that has stopped as well now. But have to understand yourself mentality first because if not you will lose yourself in the process. Im dating this guy for 3 years now. Thats it. He is so passive. How can he be so sure of that and not even care to nurture our relationship? As his tummy is upset, but theres been more times idk I just think in this lockdown Ill message him say Im not far from where he is and Im like I could drive past wave from my car and hes like no dont do that. But I cant help but fear the same thing would happen again anytime soon.Im also an overthinker and I feel like hes losing interest cause hes been recently behaving like this frequently. He has his mum doing everything for him. Then make him work for you! Then I get a text at 10 pm! Ive communicated everything and yet nothing. You will be happy, trust me. Not to mention, our second date was going to look at a puppy he was looking at after meeting my dog. And thats what messes with me a lotwhy doesnt he want to do the same for me. it breaks my heart that despite all my efforts still i been judged as a selfish gf. But I look at him for him. You have to be more understanding. im still giving him a 100 up till today. he likes to live in the moment as he says. Please give me some advice pleaaaase. Girl please, stop wading knee deep in his shit! My boyfriend and I started with a lot of stress in our relationship. After crying and getting rid of the emotional baggage, I realize now how fortunate I am to be out of that relationship. I met my boyfriend at work. Its a long distance relationship, we live 2 hours away from each other. But for about two of those months, weve been in a long distance relationship due to him being relocated for work and weve only really seen each other about two or three times irl. I dont think Ill ever want to be in another relationship again. I said ok. you can still offer him emotional support (from a distance) if he needs itgood luck, xoxo. My boyfriend of three years got me a card. One of the best things to do when youre confused about your relationship is to pull back and try to see yourself and your boyfriend more objectively. Whats the good of having money and a nice house if you dont enjoy your life!??? Dont ever think you are alone btw! I even dressed like a naughty teacher when we had sex. Why doesnt he ever randomly surprise me, try to plan out dates, put a lot of thought into gifts, etc. But I really wanted to build connections to his family because aside from him, I dont know anybody. Im still not brave enough to leave him though he was my first long term and Ive had the best time of my life with him. I do not want to give up on relationship, But seems to be STAGNANT right now. On the other hand, if your man is more independent and hes not used Yesterday he spent the whole day replaying to every single text with yeah or k. We cuddled and played video games until 5 am and they took me home. I really love him and care for him. He did go a bit out of the way for Valentines day but last week our first date night since my bday in Jan didnt go quite as well as hoped and as usual, despite saying well just finish where we left off later, that turned into never. A couple passing times of the day, well meet just for a couple minutes. Still, surprises still pop up often enough to keep you on your toes. Lets see whats they do. You name it he does it. And more likely, he wont change. Especially if you have a SON!! Thats was our first time seeing each other in person (granted, Id seen him randomly beforehand in elementary school years before that). I stayed because I felt that I deserved to hear those things, I was being enlightened about what others saw in me but were just too polite to say to me. he says that he cares and loves me but doesnt do anything to show me that. I have asked him on several occasions to make more of an effort but it ends up in an argument. I noticed he changed a bit, he does little effort in our relationship. He gets angry and its caused a lot of fights lately. He dosnt wnt to sex i know that well. It is just hurtful to know that he could not even think of doing this one thing for me. yes I did give myself to him.he was my first.. and it was the second time I snuck out but I did everything for him and I get ignored. I DO ALL THE LAUNDRY, VACCUMING , DISHES ,MOPPING, ALL THE CLEANING. He is the problem. I was told by my therapist that I could be the one to plan the date myself and ask him out and even though I completely agree with her on that, I cant help feel now that if I were to do that and ask him on a date that he will think that he doesnt ever have to put in the effort of planning something, anything, and that if he waits long enough I will plan it for us so he doesnt have to. Not ever. Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He hasnt asked me out or made an effort to spend anytime with me for 4 weekends in a row. Weve knwon each other since high school because my bestfriend has relationship with him. When I asked him about it the other day, he just said hes not the type of person, but he clearly us because he has done these things before. The first two years of the relationship he was wonderful. We were fine for the first 6 months, then with this virus we havent been able to see each other. 1. Yet there it is, still on since god knows when he took her out. I feel like it would be easier being single which I dont want cuz hes a great guy other wise. He loves the gym and usually chooses that over me, hanging out with his friends etc but then when we do actually spend time together hes all over me and appreciates me so much and makes me feel amazing. And then when they do not respect those boundaries, I have a decision to make. Am so confused I dont rilly know what to do . This is all so contradictory and Im confused about our relationship. Ill leave him alone. This man is no good for you, and he will never learn how to grow out of his depression if theres someone always doing everything for him. Maybe hes coping with financial problems in his professional or personal life, or grieving the los of someone he loves. I decided to pull back and just sit and watch. Do you have an suggestions on what I should do? Needless to say, I do not want to get married, to see if that will make a difference. We are doing thanksgiving together. Now, I dont know all the details of this, but I would say that hes pushing you away unintentionally while trying to cope with the loss of his father. He apologized but I was just so hurt. Every time I have to make the first move conversation and ask what to do, He has no idea. We do get a long very well and we are highly mature people. I miss him terribly. He is mechanical and can fix many things. We just hang out in my house. As of now, we have been back together in a relationship for about a year and a half. I love him but Im not fully happy with all this lazy effort ?. Lately he seem a bit distant,he will pick my calls and reply my messages when he is in a meeting,now he complains that it upsets him a bit when i text him when he is in a meeting.. Maybes its best we leave it and not have to try so hard with the next person. We recently broke up with him due to the fact that, despite my efforts to express how I didnt feel like a priority, and him apologizing, him not making an effort to see me during the week (Works been crazy) and saying he would call me at night, but not, he did not change and I gave it 2 1/2 weeks. But I have stopped always responding to him quickly and am now just being courteous but not engaging beyond that, and he gets concerned and starts asking whats wrong, am i mad at him, etc. It is too immature an attitude for a 56 year old intelligent man. Especially since at the beginning thats when you have your honeymoon stage with the feeling of butterflies and the sweet words. Get away from him immediately! Advice please? Sometimes I felt that he was mad at me, he would say that I was a show off or that I always took things too seriously. Its always laying on the couch watching TV. He sends me photos while he is out with them. Say you have a date tomorrow night. Also He text slow and we converse only when we have some argument. Ignoring a man based on false projections often has drastic results. Sometimes when I try to kiss him he shoved me away. im in the same boat as you and it really sucks. Ive had a talk with him a few times that I feel like his mom, Im always cleaning and cooking and have to tell him what needs to be done. 36 Questions to Ask Your Partner That Lead to Love, 6 Signs Youre Growing Apart From Your Partner, take a negative toll on your relationship, determine if the partnership is worth mending. Xx Be strong. I feel sad when I see these things and feel left unheard and unseen by my so-called partner. Letting Go of Someone You Loveis filled with comforting, practical ways to heal your heart. The only thing I get from him are words. I am learning. Clearly I am not a priority and I deserve better so I think it is time to move on. Did your boyfriend stop making an effort because hes distracted or stressed about something else in his life? Then rock bottom hits, I ended up having to go to urgent care bc of an allergic reaction to a flu shot I had gotten. Then they show us who they really are and we dont want to see. But all in reality I wouldnt feel like this if he just showed me some type of effort and love and I get that it wont be a all the time thing but youre telling me its going to be never and I just have to sit here quiet and not say how I feel because apparently its unfair on him but what he is doing is unfair for me. HE DOESNT TAKE THE TRASH OUT ANYMORE. Were in our late 20s. That he put them in their box where he can find them easily when hes getting dressed in the morning and didnt remember where. HI CHRIS, MY BOYFRIEND ALSO DRINKS A LOT. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and I just dont know how to feel about things. Gaslighting, deflecting if I try to reasonably communicate how I feel (because I am not allowed to ever have a problem). THEY ARE DRINKING AN BECOME LAZY. I guess subconsciously I acted that way because hes quite lazy and I didnt want to cut him any slack in fear that he would put in less effort to maintain the long distance. Its okay to build from scratch instead of being in an emotionally abusive relationship and constantly being destroyed in to nothing. Instead of wishing things were different, practice accepting the fact that you cant change your boyfriend or make him want to spend time with you. Find yourself then get to understand your mate emotionally and mentally. Sometimes he will notice mistakes I make on the work but not notice how much I need his affection. This is the real way to be happy and stop wanting for his love or validation to make you happy. at the same time, I am wondering why should i wait for him to initiate, why not agree that i pay half of the dinner since i am an independent woman who believes in equality. He also explained to me that the last time we saw each other that night he walked home and got hit by a car. ? line and starts listing all the nice things he did recently. Im right there with you though, I feel the same way about my bf of 2 years. I am still sad and confused as to what happened. Are you still in your relationship? Crazy! Just stop allowing that guy to keep thrusting a dagger in your heart. Not just that, sexually as well. LEAVE HIM. However I have had major trust issues since I was young and still find it hard to trust him in certain situations. We have an 18 year age gap. Idk what to do I dont want to lose him but i cant tell if he loves me or not he says he rlly does but doesnt act like it. So accept that it will be hard, cry about it for a week or two and try to move on with your life and realize that you deserved so much better then that pos. Next thing I woke up to a text. You can do it xoxox, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. Or also he went out and was feeling confused about the relationship where he didnt come home therefore he ended things in the morning after having a long night prob thinking about it. They are both in their 40s and are so happy to find each other. There are plenty more examples. But one day accidently I saw that his facebook conversation with a girl. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months already and up until this day, he is literally showing no effort in our relationship. sometimes i question if he even has time for me at all. Im going through the same thing now. Text messages are very slow to respond, I dont text him ten times a day either. Hes now making $175k a year plus an extra $5000/mo retainer as a consultant with his old job. And the only way to do that to take more care of our own selves, love ourselves moretruly love our self! But he feels that I would have a better chance getting a job were he lives then him getting a Job where I live but thats not the point. Ive been dating Wes for about 6-7 months. Again, tons of excuses. He avoided conversations about his feelings, and we struggled to communicate & resolve issues. Such as examples of what he did made you feel a certain way and what was the real reason he did that? but yeah I rlly love this guy and our relationship is dying. for example, yesterday, he gave me a box of chocolates only because his mom made him and i usually have to make the first moves, even if its something simple as reaching out to hold hands. I asked why the sudden change? I truly dont know what to do.. Ive been with my bf for 3 years now and were expecting. She tried to meet my bf but she found out about more crazy stuff and i got into a lot of trouble. we recently got back together after a break up. You can spend a lifetime figuring out a persons situation and analyze things, but at the end of the day, actions are louder than words, and if a man/women REALLY wants to be with you, they will move mountains. I cant help but feel like he doesnt care as much about me as he used to, as we used to spend more time together before when I was more prioritized. Is he back with me to punish me or hes still holding back because of the break up and I just need to wait? My boyfriend and I have known each other since I was 18 years old. In fact, because you are so young, they will most likely find you when you least expect it. I went through a period of unemployment and he was not emotionally supportive through this period. Never any action. I love my girlfriend but I never know what to say to her. When he just cuts me off or just blindly follows what his mum says which is most of the time unreasonable it just makes me feel like he doesnt care too much about me, like he isnt willing to fight for me. I am getting back to a new normal. I bought so much things to do for his birthday . I randomly always try to put efforts in the relationship but get nothing in return. Especially because hes not an introverted person, he has a lot of friends he goes out with often to play board games or to bars. God bless! Its been since then that the dating pattern of our relationship has declined significantly. To me it seems like your boyfriend is causing your anxiety and making you feel down which is not okay at all. Honestly this lockdown really changed my relationship! He does spend time with us and financially he is very supportive which Im great full for. I am sad, let down, depressed, jealous of every woman out there, sexually frustrated beyond comprehension. He said he did. WORKS BUT DOES NOTHING ELSE. We only see each other every one or two weeks at the most. I feel like I have to bow down to him because its always his way. But then he started talking to me normally and we was fine for a couple weeks but its been 3 weeks now he just hasnt been putting effort in and leaves me on read and blancs my messages (on snapchat we have a streak and thats when he snaps me) & I texted him saying hiya and he left me on read I just dont know what to do anymore my friends have told me to end this but I really do love him what shall I do? But I always gave him the benefit of the doubt. I dont know what else to say about any of it, but I do know that Im getting more depressed by the day. he only paid for me once and he never surprises me with dates or buy gifts. Stop yourself from bombarding him with messages. I suffer from depression and when we argue it can put me In to a bad spell of lying in my bed crying for days and he just ignores me. Wanting me to be available for him. His complaint is that no matter what he does is never enough and that I dont contribution anything. He talks about himself so much but never asks about me. My brother did tell me that he may be going through some things in his personal life that he is not ready to share with me. And he is never sorry because he can justify it no matter how stupid. Any thoughts ppl? These tips actually worked. Which actually does NOT suck because I was married for 24 years and I dont miss having to make sure someone eats supper, has clean clothes, etc. If you want to know how to keep an Aries man chasing you and texting you back, ask him a practical question. First I asked him if we could level up our relationship through meeting his and my family. 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